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I’ve seen it happen over and over. A small percentage of Asian guys seem to account for 90% of all hookups with non-Asians. Surprisingly, they range from fresh of the boats to third generation MIT students. I don’t think it’s a coincidence. What these guys have in common is unstoppable confidence and how many times have we heard that women like confident men?
Actually, in my experience, being Asian can actually be an advantage. Yeah right? That’s right, it allows me to go in under the radar. I very, very rarely get rejected or shut down when I approach a girl. Let’s get one thing straight though: It’s all mental. If you want different results, then you have to change your method. Most guys don’t want to change. Change can be unpleasant. Some guys will resist change with the classic “I want her to like me for who I am” or “Why can’t I just be myself”. Who am I to tell you not to? I am just trying to help you be the best you can be. Chances are you are not being the charming, suave playboy that you know is inside you. The way you are now is not you. It is you, but it’s not all you. We are all molded by our upbringing, societal expectations and limiting beliefs. You’ve been taught to be one way, now is the time to be taught to be a different way.
The biggest sticking point for most Asian Americans dating is being too shy. White women, American women, do not want a shy guy. A shy guy is not a polite guy, is not a smart, humble guy in their mind, he is just a friend, someone to hitch a ride from. Solution? Be social, learn how to converse with people of all backgrounds. Ask those open ended questions and do listen for the answer. No one really listens anymore. Do you know how other people, girls, feel when you really listen? ‘You’re such a good conversationalist!’, but you only listened! Go out and transform yourself, your degree won’t teach you these things. Your ‘model minority/good student’ role may be holding you back even.
There’s also a lot of Asian guys who are not really shy, but don’t feel comfortable flirting with women outside your race. ‘I don’t care what THEY think anyway’, but you’re not fooling anyone. Deep inside, a lot of guys are a intimidated by white girls.
It’s a shame. The dating scene is easier as an Asian guy in my opinion. We’re smart, educated, humble and respectful. We have family values and a rich culture. It’s all in the head.
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