What guy doesn’t want a threesome? It is one of the most common sexual fantasies. It’s one of those things that once you do it you become legendary to your friends and not to mention the target of envy.
But what happens if you actually have one and you’re in a relationship. You and your girlfriend find someone who is willing to join you and it’s someone that you both feel comfortable with. Do you set some ground rules? Maybe you can touch her, but you can’t kiss or penetrate. If it’s another guy, maybe he can only touch and not kiss, etc. what crosses the line and if that line is crossed, is it cheating? And if it’s in that gray area, what happens after the affair?
This is very peculiar in that it takes a certain kind of relationship to be able to have a threesome and go on with the relationship like you normally would. Who do you have it with any way? Some do it with a close friend, some a stranger, and others even seek out a “professional”. This is your preference. You should both feel comfortable enough to get naked with them. When it’s over and you have the impression that ” my girlfriend cheated on me ” or ” my boyfriend cheated on me” then you were probably meant to have a threesome in the first place.
My advice would be that if you want to have one and your partner is cool with it- start slow. Maybe start with a massage or a triple kiss. Jumping right into sex might be a shock. Keep in mind that people are sexual in nature and all you are really doing is acting out your animalistic urges. Not to mention you’re doing it with the person you care about so it should be a special occasion.
Just remember that ground rules are ok, but passion is unpredictable.
