1 – Do not lie about your ex
This one will kill any chances of getting your ex back stone dead. Turn the situation around and imagine they were spreading lies about you. I know I would be mortified if my recent ex was doing this. And as far as I was concerned my recent ex is definitely going to stay that way…my ex!
2 – Getting your ex to be a bit jealous
This tactic can work if you know what you are doing and when to use it. But it won’t work if they know you want them back and are desperate to get back together. This can backfire big time. The jealousy you are looking for may turn to revulsion and they then know it’s over for good.
3 – Behaving like a stalker
We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. The worst you can be seen is downright frightening and potentially dangerous. This could easily lead to an arrest and I don’t think I need to tell you what that’ll do for your chances.
4 – Revenge is sweet
If you are even thinking of extracting any sort of revenge on your ex, you gotta ask yourself if you really want to get back together. Getting revenge in any way shape or form on your ex must mean you don’t really love them as much as you claim to. If you love someone you wouldn’t hurt them.
5 – Pestering them with calls or texts
Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. Best case scenario they ignore the calls, worst case they change their number. Then you’ve screwed any chance of future contact.
You now know a few things to avoid doing if you have desires to get your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them
If you want my advice, use the next few weeks to take some time out and get your emotions firmly in check If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.
When I went through a breakup and wanted to get my wife back I turned to a system that was so easy to follow it was like painting by numbers, but this was getting my ex back by numbers.
Getting your ex back should be your choice, and not left to fate.
