Men do not like it when their girlfriends are pleasing them too hard. It is not because they do not like to be pleased but you may consider that too much of the good thing can also be bad for the relationship. You are weak in their eyes and men do not like their girlfriends to be weak. You do not have to be dominant either, you just have to be respectable.
Do not talk about your ex. Men are naturally competitive therefore you should avoid these topics. They think that all men are competition and when the ex topic is opened up, you are putting them in a situation wherein their is a comparison between him and other men. So avoid this topic at all times.
Background and personal history is important. Knowing that you dated one man throughout high school and college is important. Telling your date that he is a football player with 20 awards, his game stats, where his tattoos are, etc. is too much. Focusing on one ex will sell the idea that either you still have feelings for him, or if it is all negative, you will cause your date to over analyze themselves.
Being business like is also a big turn off for some men. Men like their girls to be feminine and should therefore behave femininely. Too much femininity can also be a disadvantage. Men are turned off by intimidating women.
Pressuring him is another turn off. This includes trying to get him to define his role and analyze who he is and how he feels. Men tend not to like having their feelings challenged, and if he has an idea that is proven wrong, then it can send him packing.
Another thing to send him packing is to try and change him. You can’t. Men think that being steady means that you want him for him, so trying to change him is going to tell him he has a serious problem. Even if he does not have a problem, trying to change him will challenge his feelings and strip him of who he is. Let him be him. If you need something else, find someone else.
Nobody is perfect and accepting the man you are with now is essential. So try not to scare them off in the first place.
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