Getting a girl to like you does not have to be hard, and in fact it can be quite fun. One trick is to find a group of very similar girls with similar interests whom you are interested in, and figure out what types of guys they like and why. Then the key to this trick is simply learning how to develop the traits that those girls are interested in.
It’s usually never as hard as people try to make it sound, even though it does take a lot of work. Fortunately, if you can find a method that works, and repeat it enough, you will do just fine. Since you cant fight human nature, it is important that you try to find things that work towards your advantage. This wont be the same for everyone.
So how do you get a girl to like you? You need to be different, unique, and usually fun. Although the ladies will find different things interesting than you will, and even than other ladies will, girls almost always do not like plain and boring. They do like exciting and unique, and adventurous. There are two ways to go about it, either decide what you want, and then figure out what that girl is interested in, or figure out what type of guy you are, and what type of girls are interested in who you are. Being yourself and finding someone who likes who you are is pretty self explanatory, but odds are youre hear because youve tried that, and you cant seem to know what girls are interested in you, or you havent tried it. So we will start with finding a girl you like
Figure out what makes girls feel good, what makes them laugh, and what doesn’t, and at what stages in time. You need to actually practice getting girls interest and attention, and that may mean failing a few times, but if you can get through those failures, you will learn to become more comfortable with your approach, and more confident. Confidence is built through experience. If you had all the confidence in the world that you were going to be an expert in brain surgery, but didnt have any experiences or degree, chances are people arent going to want you operating on them, and once you start, halfway into it you will find you are not as confident as you were because theres so much you dont know. If you do not have experience, you will not know what to say, or how to feel comfortable in certain situations
The problem with many guys is they don’t have enough girls that they talk to, and they dont get specific on what they want, so while one method might work very well for one set of girls, it might fail completely with another. Without keeping things consistent, it is hard to find any one method of success.
The solution to this problem is to actually try some things out. Don’t just expect something to work every time, you have to try the same exact method several times. Only then can you assume it’s not that effective for you personally in that environment. Change that method slightly and try again. Once you have found a method that gets girls interested, you just have to approach enough of them, until you find one that has enough in common, and who’s feelings will grow until they really start to like you. This may just be the beginning but it is a very crucial step. The method of trying, trying, and trying again, then using your feedback to change, and then trying and trying again until you have the right “formula” is almost a surefire method to getting girls to like you at least enough to show interest in taking the next step. Once you have that “formula”, you can repeat it with the girl you want to attract, and the more you spend time with her, the more likely she is to develop an interest. That may seem like a long process, but it’s different for everyone, some people are funny, others are strong and silent, and sometimes girls like different things, there’s no surefire way to get a girl to like you that works for everyone.
