You may not realise but we are all subjected to some sort of psychological mind games almost every day. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.
Sneakily get her to return your call…. This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. So you send her a letter telling her how good things are for you right now. And you also say you want to thank her.
This works in two ways. First she’s curious and then comes the pride. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.
I can show you later on where to get an exact blueprint for the actual letter to send. And some other tricks like this.
Play on her good memories…. By this I mean everyone has memories that are treasured, and these can be used for your advantage. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.
If she ever comes to your place or calls you (after receiving the letter!). You have the song on in the background just loud enough for her subconscious mind to hear it. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.
Curious jealousy…. Get your self out with some friends but make sure you are seen to be having a great time. Also make sure that your ex finds out just what a good time you had.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She won’t be expecting you out & about having fun so soon. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.
Those are just a few of the many psychological mind games you can use to win her back. Some people may frown on them but it’s not like you are going to hypnotise her and steal her away. Of course you don’t want to be using them just willy nilly.
What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.
You can find out what I think are the best couple of all round systems that will show you exactly how to get her back at my website… MakeupNotBreakup.com
