I was so cut up over the split I didn’t have a clue what to do. I needed to get over her fast and did a lot of research for info and articles but what I accidentally found was info on how to get her back.
Now I’m the biggest cynic in the world. I would bet on this info being a load of old bull. I decided to throw forty bucks away and give it a try.
One of the bonus sections dealt with psychology and how we use it every day to almost control other people with silent suggestion.
I was quite impressed with this part of the package. I connected with these tactics almost immediately. In fact I recognised some of them as things I’d used on my kids to get them to do stuff they didn’t want to.
Without even realising it, we might use reverse psychology in our everyday lives. Imagine trying to get a lazy flatmate to go play football.
They don’t like the idea so you lay a line on them like “if you aren’t physically capable, that’s fine”. They usually return with something like “of course I’m capable, when do we start”.
We played the psychology card here. Using their own pride as the tool against them. These same tricks can be used to get your ex back on track.
I got my head together and left my ex a voice message. I planted the seed of curiosity in the message as curiosity plays a huge part in our lives. Marry curiosity with a bit of psychology and we’re talking magic powers!
My ex called me back the next day. But more importantly she called me to ask about me, how I was, what I was doing. She didn’t consciously realise I’d planted the seed in the message the day before.
The day I left her the message I didn’t ask her to get back to me, but I was pretty confident she would. And I was right on that point.
After this it was pretty easy going for us as my wife was convinced she’d made the first move. She hadn’t, I had. But I’m not going to remind her.
At first I started out trying to get over her. I then had a complete change of plan and decided to try and get my ex back. And it worked ok for me.
Even if it didn’t work for me I would have got my money back and gone out and saw a game!
