I was so distraught I just did not have a clue where to turn. I spent ages looking for articles and stuff to help me get over her but what I came across was info on how to get her back.
To be honest I’m probably the worlds biggest sceptic. I was willing to put money on it being a crock of….well, you get the picture. To cut a long story short a thought I’d waste forty bucks on it.
One of the bonus sections dealt with psychology and how we use it every day to almost control other people with silent suggestion.
I immediately connected with some of these psychological tricks. Having used some on my kids when they were just plain stubborn to do something.
Without even realising it, we might use reverse psychology in our everyday lives. Imagine trying to get a lazy flatmate to go play football.
They don’t like the idea so you lay a line on them like “if you aren’t physically capable, that’s fine”. They usually return with something like “of course I’m capable, when do we start”.
That’s psychology in action there. You used their own sense of pride against them. The same type of subtle methods can be used to woo your ex round.
I got my head together and left my ex a voice message. I planted the seed of curiosity in the message as curiosity plays a huge part in our lives. Marry curiosity with a bit of psychology and we’re talking magic powers!
My ex called me back the next day. But more importantly she called me to ask about me, how I was, what I was doing. She didn’t consciously realise I’d planted the seed in the message the day before.
The day I left her the message I didn’t ask her to get back to me, but I was pretty confident she would. And I was right on that point.
After this it was pretty easy going for us as my wife was convinced she’d made the first move. She hadn’t, I had. But I’m not going to remind her.
There’s me starting out with a view to getting over her. A complete reversal had me looking to get my ex back. And it worked pretty good for me.
Although if it hadn’t had worked out for me I would have gotten the refund on the book and gone to a game somewhere!
