A lot of women just need a little better understanding of where men are coming from. They are not necessarily opposed to love and commitment, they are just more cautious and regimented than their female counterparts. Men also do not feel the pull of time and expectations for marriage from society that most women do. Therefore, the process for a man to fall into a deep relationship is different than that for a woman.
All a woman needs to do to help her cause is try some subtle maneuvering. Men have this need to be in control of situations and to know that they are not moving too fast or making a wrong decision. Yes, they do feel this quite strongly when they contemplate their relationships. They have this innate requirement that they must spend enough time dating a woman before they will let themselves actually fall in love with her.
You, the woman, can make this timeline move much faster. Subtlety and variety are the keys to helping you make your man fall in love. Your guy’s idea of time is based on his memories of places you have been together and things you have done as a couple. Give him more of these memories and you will make him think that there has been more time invested.
Fill your dates by going to several places instead of just one. Let your guy pick you up and then take him to catch up with a few work colleagues for a quick cocktail. You only need to stay a short time before you move on to the cinema to check out the latest new release. After you leave the theater, head out to listen to some live music at one of the downtown hotspots or stop and have a relaxing cappuccino at a local café. Now you have just filled one night with three fun and memorable stops.
Your man will remember you in the context of all of these locations and his perception will be slightly manipulated. You are filling a short amount of time with more recollections. These speed up his assessment of time spent with you and will allow him to move forward more quickly. Your efforts to make him fall in love and his need to spend enough time will begin to mesh a little sooner. The tactics are harmless, but they will help you get the job done.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
