The modest dresses out there have the tendency of making the bride look boxy – almost shapeless. This is too bad since this is not the goal of the modest bride, she just doesn’t want to be over exposed. I suggest having one made by an accomplished seamstress. Finding a good seamstress might take a little effort, but the end result will be something fabulous.
Looking for inspiration – look to ‘The Sound of Music’, Maria’s satin, long trained gown was absolutely gorgeous! With all the classic elements – what bride wouldn’t look stunning in this gown. How about ‘My Fair Lady’ – any slim bride would be amazing in the white sheath that Audrey Hepburn wore. Speaking of Audrey – she wore a dazzling short stunner in ‘Funny Face’ – go short or make a longer version.
Women who have made history by walking down the aisle in a stunning gown are – Jaclyn Kennedy, Princess Grace, and English princesses, all wore stunning gowns that were very modest. Copying their gowns, or making a version of it, would guarantee you a truly superb dress with a wow factor.
How about wearing a gown that has been in the family? Many brides who do this carry on a tradition that stands the test of time. They look stunning and elegant and there is something about tradition that makes a wedding very special – very personal.
Remaking a gown is an option that would allow you updates, without having to be over exposed. Making a lace or satin shrug, jacket or even full length jacket can be used as a cover up over a gown. Building up and exposed bodice could also be done to make an improper gown more wearable.
You might also find that travel might give you more opportunities to find a modest gown. The U.S. might be more immodest, but other countries might have more healthy boundaries concerning attire in the worship place. Also bridal salons that cater to Mormons or Observant Jews might give you more of a selection.
Looking at vintage clothing or antique shops, or even museums can help you to either find a gown, or get inspiration for your own design. Olde World designs also offer creative designs that have appeal for today.
Always remember that this is your day and that wearing what you want – even if it’s not they style is perfectly acceptable. If you’ve always wanted Princess Diana’s puffed sleeves – have them, this is your day and you will show others that you don’t travel with the pack. I find I enjoy going to a wedding that isn’t the same old thing, and I appreciate a bride and groom who have some decorum and a more respectful approach to their wedding.
Perhaps if designers realize that there are women who want a more modest gown they will offer more styles. Until then, use your creativity and you will have a stunning, awe inspiring gown for your special day.
Denise Dunn is an expert on how to have a $20,000 wedding for under $5,000. For tips and lots of free information on Modest Wedding Gowns, visit the website http://cheapweddingsaver.com/modest-wedding-gowns/.
