Then one day his family noticed that he had not been in a relationship for a while. He appeared happy and content being on his own, and not anxious about being alone. What his family soon discovered was that Malcolm was done with disastrous dating. He was preparing himself to attract and finally meet the love of his life. When he was ready, she showed up. He eventually married her!
Malcolm used these 4 critical areas to prepare himself to attract his mate. Having these areas covered can surely avert many of the avoidable problems that couples face. Problems that are later referred to as “irreconcilable differences” in the divorce court.
Use the following 4 areas as your own checklist as you prepare yourself to attract your soul mate:
Finances: It is a truism that financial mismanagement is one of the top 2 reasons why couples break up. Getting your financial house in order is the best thing you can do for the health of your relationship. That means getting rid of the ominous credit card debt, paying off student loans, keeping tabs on your credit score and having a savings and long term investment program in place. In that way, you can start your marriage off on the right footing.
Past Relationships: Actively staying friends with your ex is not a good idea if you are trying to attract your true love. Often, we hear people say that they are just dating this person until their true love shows up. There is nothing wrong with being alone. It is amazing how much clarity you can get about yourself and your choices when you spend time alone – giving yourself a much needed break from dating. The clearer you are about what you want, and what you won’t accept, the more likely you will find it. You then find it in the most unlikely places, when you are not really looking.
Ensure that your past stays there and that there is no overlap between relationships. The benefit for you is greater clarity by giving yourself time.
Health Issues: Little, if any thought is given to this area until something problematic happens later down the road. Make healthy living a life style. For instance, it is futile to lose weight to help you attract a mate only to pile it back on when you achieve your objective. This is particularly true for women. Short term measures are counterproductive when looking at the long term picture. Healthy living includes all the things we put into our bodies, minds and emotions.
Getting Help: Having the courage to get help is what separates those who succeed from those who fail. Getting help in the areas mentioned above can be achieved through the use of a coach, mentor or reading self help books and materials.
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