Relationship Advice For Women – Loving Men Who Fear Commitment

Black Relationships: Commitment vs Submissive

Women who are involved with men who fear commitment know they are facing an uphill battle when it comes to establishing and maintaining a long term relationship. It’s frustrating and disappointing to fall in love with a man who is scared to pop the question or take a walk down the aisle. Is there anything you can do if you find yourself dating a man endlessly instead of working towards something more meaningful? There actually is. In fact, you can subtly persuade your man to crave to be married to you.

In any case, if you still like him and want to save the relationship if you can, it’s a good idea to respect his wishes to calm things down. If he doesn’t want to see or speak to you for a while, let him be.

Ouch! Now I know that hurts but just hang in there and let my sew you back up.

Now is also a good time to reassess how you’ve been interacting with him.

·         Have you been a bit too “full-on” or a bit “too much”?

·         Have you, by words or actions, been pushing him for a commitment? It may well be that you have been too demanding, too early on in your relationship.

Understanding how to get a commitment from a man begins with recognizing that men respond to actions and not words. If you are constantly trying to strike up a conversation with your man about why you two should be getting married, he’s going to resist it more and more. He’ll feel pressured and once a man feels he is being pushed into anything, he’ll push back and not give in. You’ll have much more success if you actually stop talking about marriage completely. Don’t bring up the idea of anything more serious than what you have right now. It won’t take him long to notice the change in you and it will strike a chord within him.

Many men who fear commitment do so because they are terrified of losing their freedom. They envision evenings and weekends spent shopping or antiquing instead of hanging out with their friends watching sports or fishing. Make it crystal clear to your man that you have no interest in monopolizing his time after if things become more serious.

However, if you instead make it clear, through your actions, that you’re starting to reconsider your options, he’ll take that seriously. Do this by making more plans and decisions on your own. Don’t always be available to him and he’ll start to panic. Once that happens it’s just a matter of time before he makes things more permanent

Resource Author Francisco R. Higueras
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