Should I Give My Cheating Husband A Second Chance? If So, How?

I’m often contacted by women who are torn as to whether to give their husband’s who have cheated a second chance in the marriage.  Often, the wives don’t want to break up their families or give up years of commitment and love over just one poor decision, but there is often more to the story than this.  Many times, they are scared that they will open their hearts and be vulnerable again only to later find that their husband has cheated again.  Or, they are afraid that ultimately, there is too much pain, betrayal, and awkwardness now under the bridge for the marriage to really survive.  And finally, many women worry that if they try to save the marriage, people will think that they are naive, spineless, or have no self respect.