There is something about approaching girl groups that can make a guy sweat in all the wrong places. With girl groups being so intimidating, start simply with one girl at a time. Most of us know that a guy who can’t make a simple approach is going to have a difficult time with every other aspect of girls and dating.
Think about why we get so worked up over approaching girls. We are struggling because we are afraid she is going to turn us down. We care enough about whether she likes us back enough that we make ourselves all nervous and then we blow our chances for a smooth intro.
If you want to join the basketball team, you go out and practice. If you want to get a lot on the baseball team, you will practice. Approaching girls also takes a few missed shots in order to start getting it right. Practicing gives you the chance to learn from your mistakes, even if your learning curve comes with a few red faced moments.
Be as smooth as you can be. For some guys, that isn’t going to be very smooth, but give it a go. If you find yourself stuttering or searching for something to say, start your very next sentence with, “I like.”
Whether it’s her hair, her piercing, or her athletic ability all you have to do is fill in the blank. Then you have a topic on which to ask some questions.
As you build up your confidence you will find that you’re ready to graduate from compliments and conversation starters to asking a woman out for coffee or a drink on the spot. As time passes and you realize that approaching girls is just an acquired skill, you will be the guy that other guys ask for advice.
