The reason most peoples self esteem goes up and down all the time is because in this modern society, everyone is always comparing themselves to other people and when self esteem gets knocked down it takes lots of time, reassurance and mentoring to bring it back up again. After self esteem has been painstakingly built up again, it can be knocked straight back down again by something as simple as someone saying towards you or one of your beliefs, especially if the person saying it is held in high regard by your social group or in society in general.
Contrary to what many books will tell you, simply waking up and saying I feel great every morning isnt really going to do all that much to help your self esteem. Low self esteem is usually a result of bad experiences and negative memories. In order to genuinely increase self esteem, we need to explore each of these negative memories and all the insufficiencies you believe you have, and straighten them out individually. An expert is required for this, and with this very sensitive subject, an expert will have to have been there and done the whole low self esteem / depression thing and can speak from experience.
It is usually thought that low self esteem is something that effects people who have not been successful in life and are disappointed with what theyve achieved, however the fact is that self esteem rarely has anything to do with physical achievements in life, financially speaking at least. There are people who have all the riches you could ask for and who still have very low self esteem which makes their lives hell.
If you are a sufferer of low self esteem, then there is a lot for you to find out about it, and probably about yourself as well. The best way to find out everything about this very important topic is from someone who has been through a self esteem problem themselves and come out of it a happier person.
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