Saturday, July 31, 2010

What Every Girl Wants – Commitment – Get Him to Commit

Are you tired of the dating game? Are you ready for a real relationship with a real man? Are you ready for security that being in a committed relationship brings? Is there away to get a man to commit? Yes, there is a way to get what every girl wants: commitment from a great guy.

Taking time to build a friendship is paramount to a lasting commitment. If you and your guy have nothing in common, no amount of chemistry and great sex will keep the two of you committed. Relationships go through ups and downs, and there needs to be a solid friendship in place if the relationship is going to last.

Giving a guy space is another way to get him to commit. Guys by nature need “guy time”. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to be with you, they just need time to do “guy things.” The quickest way to run him off is to whine and complain when he wants some guy time. Actually, giving him a little space and even encouraging him to hang out with friends can be very sexy and alluring to some guys. It makes him wonder what you are up to when he isn’t around.

Another way to get what every girl wants, commitment, is to not rush into the bedroom. Taking time to reach this level in your relationship says a lot about you. Holding back sends the message that you are a long term girlfriend, even wife material. Not just out for a good time. Remember, you want to be the girl he takes home to meet the parents.

Building the relationship, giving him space and waiting to have sex, are three ways to get what every girls wants: commitment from a great guy.

To learn more, click Make Him Commit and learn Mistakes about Commitment most women make without knowing.

This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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