Why Do Some Wives Assuming Going to a Bar Means Breaking Wedding Vows?

Why would some wives/people in general I guess assuming going to a bar after work to let off steam means he is breaking his wedding vows? Have they never seen Cheers or the Simpson's where husband just stop by the bar where everyone knows your name and you just catch up with friends for a minute before going home?

Suggestion:

Because going to bars leads to watching midget porn, and we all know watching midget porn leads to cheating.

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: People let off steam many ways. They go to the movies, dinner out with friends, sometimes includes with their BF, to the gym, but they usually go home and spend quality times with their families and / or go online, play games, respond to emails. I go to YA to let off steam.

At a bar, you find new relationships. People put 'stuff' in your drinks and get you wasted. You meet the wrong crowd.

Divorce rates are growing, and do you know why?
: I can field this…..as a wife who deals with this all the time! she's feeling like you need to go look at other girls and drink with your friends and that's more important that her. I've learned to just deal with it, some chicks will actually divorce you over this. It can become a real problem, you two should really sit down and talk about why you like stopping out and why she feels hurt by it, because that's the problem right there, her feelings are being hurt – there has to be a way you two can meet in the middle over this